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Speakers Need To Use A Hook To Catch Their Audience’s Attention

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011
Image Credit Every Speaker Has To Have A Hook To "Catch" Their Audience's Attention

When you start a speech, you know that the first few words that come out of your mouth have to be interesting to your audience. However, I’m going to take that thought one step further – your first words have to “hook” your audience’s interest. What you say has to catch them off guard, has to intrigue them, has to make them want to hear more. This isn’t easy to do, but I’m going to show you how…

Just What Is A Hook?

In the world of advertising, a “hook” is what grabs an audience’s attention and holds it. Each year in the U.S. the Superbowl football game sells its TV advertising spots for millions of dollars and each advertiser desperately tries to come up with a “hook” that will cause the audience to remember what they are trying to sell.

One key point that too many Superbowl advertisers overlook (and speakers too!) is that the device that you use to grab your audience’s attention needs to be tied back to the main message. Otherwise you’ll just be grabbing attention and not accomplishing anything.

This leads to the question: just what is a hook? A hook can be anything that a speaker uses to grab an audience’s attention. There are lots of different ways to do this: startling statistics, funny stories, or even a clever phrase will do the trick.

Giving a speech is hard work. A hook can make it easier. When you take the time to create a hook to use with your next speech, you will receive many benefits. These include having the ability to seize and hold on to your audience’s attention. You’ll boost the chances that your main message will be both heard and understood by the audience. Finally, a good hook makes what you say that much more memorable.

Kinds Of Hooks That You Can Use

Once you’ve decided to start your next speech with a hook, the question that you’re going to have to answer is what kind of hook do you want to use? The good news is that there are plenty to choose from.

One of the best hooks that a speaker can use is a personal story. A note of caution here: the story that you decide to tell must have a link to the main point of your speech.

The reason that a personal story works so well as a hook to draw your audience in is because your audience will be able to relate to it. Stories are how we communicate and so they are what your audience will be able to easily remember long after you are done talking.

Another type of hook that a speaker can use is a prop. A prop is simply any sort of visual aid. Since the art of speaking is all about using words to communicate your message, when all of a sudden you show your audience a tangible, physical object it will grab and hold their attention.

Using a prop that relates to the message that you are trying to get across can anchor your message in your audience’s head. During one speech that I was giving to employees of a wireless company, I used their own “mobile driving safety” brochure as a prop to show them that they weren’t following their own rules before I launched into a speech on how to better manage their teams.

Finally, providing your audience with statistics that are unusual or surprising is another way to hook them The reason that this works is that it provides your audience with a way for them to get their hands around what could otherwise be a boring concept.

An example of this would be if you were talking about how we can improve our relationships with our spouses. The American Animal Hospital Association did a survey that revealed that 78% of pet owners admitted to greeting their pet at the door before saying hello to their spouse or significant other. That kind of statistic would not be expected by your audience and would “hook” them to listen to what you said next.

What All Of This Means For You

In order to be an effective speaker you need to not only find a way to capture your audience’s attention, but you also have to find a way to hold it throughout your speech. It turns out that one of the best ways to go about doing this is to work a “hook” into the opening of your speech.

The true power of a hook is that by grabbing your audience’s emotions you will be able to make it easier for them to both understand and remember the message that is contained in your speech. A good hook has the ability to cut through all of the clutter that we all encounter each day and make your speech memorable.

Coming up with a good hook for your next speech is going to take some time and effort. The good news is that the time that you spend doing this will be richly rewarded by the rapt attention that you get from your audience and the complements that you receive from them when you are done talking!

- Dr. Jim Anderson
Blue Elephant Consulting –
Your Source For Real World Public Speaking Skills™

Question For You: Do you think that you should only use one hook or can you use multiple hooks at different points in your speech?

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

So how do you get ready to deliver a speech? Write out your words? Create some PowerPoint slides? It turns out that there’s one very important thing that you may have been missing – taking control of the room that you’ll be speaking in

Speaker Alert: Make Me Laugh — Or Else

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

Audiences Who Laugh Remember What You Say

Make Your Audiences Laugh And They'll Remember What You Say

Stop. How funny was the last speech that you gave? What – you were talking about how best to diversify a 401k basket of investments in order to incorporate more foreign exchange funds & there’s nothing funny about that? Wrong. You’re not trying hard enough. Stop being not funny.

Learn To Be Funny From A Politician

Every speech counts. Especially if you are trying to get elected. If there was any group of speakers who needed to find a way to get people to remember them & their message, it would be politicians. They have three goals every time they give a speech:

  • Promote their policies
  • Boost their accomplishments while minimizing their opponents
  • Impress people with their moral upstanding character & leadership skills

Politicians know that humor is a powerful speaking tool. They use it to both make a point as well as to illustrate that point for their (or your) audience.

In the end, it’s all about getting votes. You’re probably not running for anything right now, but why waste a speech?

Why Humor Is So Powerful When You Are Speaking

Every speech that you give is your next chance to change the world. Adding humor to your speaking style isn’t something that you can put off until “sometime”, you’ve got to do it right now.

The reason that humor works so well comes down to five basic “levers” that every audience has. Gene Perret who won several Emmys for his work in television has spent a lot of time researching what these levers do to an audience:

  • Humor Makes You More Likable: I don’t care how much of a jerk you are in real life, if you start to work more humor into your speeches your audiences will start to like you better than your family does. Perret points out that it’s really hard to laugh with a person if you don’t like them – make your audience laugh and they’ll love you forever.
  • Build Credibility Using Humor: Who are you to talk to anyone about anything? Somewhat amazingly, audiences associate the ability to be funny with wisdom. When you can joke with your audience about 401k plans, they’ll settle back and say to themselves “gosh, if he can joke about this stuff then he must know it really well”. Whether or not you really do know it really doesn’t matter any more after this.
  • Get Respect Using Humor: Some of the worst speeches that I’ve ever had to sit through were ones where the speaker was too full of himself / herself. I quickly tuned them out – I don’t have time for blowhards. When you kid around with your audience you’re telling them “I’m one of you”. When they understand that you “get” them, you will have hooked them and they’ll pay attention to you for the rest of your speech.
  • Make People Want To Listen Using Humor: When you say something funny, people laugh. If they’re not listening, then they miss out. Nobody likes to miss out on something that’s funny. When you work humor into your speeches and people start to laugh, then all of those other people who are busy reading email and sending text messages will start to look around and wonder what they are missing out on. Very quickly those iPhones and Blackberry’s will go away and you’ll have their attention.
  • Make People Remember What You Say Using Humor: Stay home if you are going to give a speech that nobody is going to remember. Why bother? What humor does is it creates the possibility that people will remember the joke, and if they do then there’s just a chance that they might remember what your point was that you made the joke about.

Final Thoughts

Stop wasting my time. If you want to get up there and give a dry, lifeless speech that has no humor in it then you may as well stay at home and just send me an email with your main points.

If, however, you want me to walk away thinking that you know what you are talking about and remembering what you said, then that’s another story. The only way that that’s going to happen is if you start to work some humor into your speech. No, you don’t have to turn into a stand-up comedian; however, you do need to make me crack a smile or at least chuckle. Get me to do that and you’ve spent your time well.

Do you think that there is any type of speech that can’t have humor added to it? (Hint: eulogies are great candidates for humor so don’t even bring that up)

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What We’ll Be Talking About Next Time

When I come to hear you speak, no matter if it’s at a departmental project status report or at a local restaurant or even if it was at a convention, the worst thing that you can do is to waste my time. What are you going to do about this?